Surviving the Narcissist: 30 Days of Recovery by Meredith Resnick

Narcissism is an illness, a more or less incurable disease that, in some cases can be managed, if the individual—the narcissist—participates in his or her own recovery. Instead of waiting for this to happen, or trying to make it happen, we can take the attention we've showered on the narcissist and apply it to ourselves.