Ugly Love by Laura Charanza

Have you ever felt like a normal discussion turns into him raging at you, while you cower in the corner, not certain what just happened to set him off? Have you felt like you would be punished if you stand up for yourself? Have you ever been told you are imagining things and everyone thinks youre crazy? Have you been told no one else could ever love you? Have you been led to believe this is all your fault? If you feel like you are living this fairy tale turned nightmare, then you may be a victim of narcissistic abuse. Abusive relationships with a narcissist follow a specific pattern. Theres the initial stage of love bombing, where hes prince charming and you are his princess and soulmate. Then, the debasement starts. The rules start changing. Just when you think you know what he wants, the standards change again. Then he isolates you. You arent allowed to see family and friends. If you do, you are punished with silence or rancid accusations. Then, theres the escalation of discussions into shouting matches, only for him to apologize and start the cycle all over again. If you feel hopeless, dont. There is a way out, and your exit plan begins with understanding what you are going through and how you ended up there. Laura Charanza is a survivor of forty years of narcissistic abuse. Laura has worked with psychologists, physicians, life coaches and spiritual healers to understand narcissism and a narcissists victims. With empathy and transparency, l Laura tells, first hand, the story of a typical and toxic relationship with a narcissist. But understand that there is a way out, and here is where your journey to freedom, peace and true love can begin